Thread:Sir Areis Lionheart/@comment-5675310-20150910033720

I see you've blocked comments on your "Where is the Breaking Point?" blog post; so I guess this is where I have to write my thoughts, because you know I just have to. Let me start off by saying that being on this Wiki, or the internet for that matter, means you're going to be dealing with people of all ages and mentalities (yes, including people with mental illness, and no, that's not an insult towards anyone). Thus, there are going to be extremely varying levels of maturity, even though I don't believe that to be dictation over it.

With that in mind; you're all acting like children. Yes, Meds is certainly vulgar, rude, and inconsiderate, but that's who he is (I will get to the part where you get lashed and he doesn't later). With that said, he has nothing to do with the Wiki any longer, and shouldn't be associated in a public chat room of any kind with actual members. You are correct in my opinion there.

Now, as per Cyber, Bree, Urkel, and Viper. I know for a fact that Viper is around my age, and although as I said before, I don't believe that age is the be all end all factor, it certainly does play a part. Add to this the fact that he grew up with entirely different people his whole life, or even just recently (considering how many people act at my school), then you may find him... Less than cultivated. Cyber, I don't no much about, so I honestly can't say much.

About Bree and Urkel. Well, what way can I honestly say this without offending you? That's really not what I'm aiming for here. Quite frankly, you're being a hypocrite. Speaking their mind on such topics of personal struggles and political opinions is exactly what you do (still going to get to that part about you being punished, just wait). There's really no reason for them to be shamed for wanting to talk about what's on their mind; as a matter of fact, I can almost guarentee you nearly every chat room on the internet would be fairly boring without just a little bit of that.

You're blog post shouldn't have been deleted, and whomever was the culprit needs to be punished. However, generalizing the entire community of admins into one category of some type of "back stabbers" in your next blog post is pretty immature and unfair. Now, the original blog itself was posted without any thought before-hand, instead driven by your livid attitude at that moment; that's clear. That wasn't exactly tasteful (not to say the way others have been acting has been). You should have waited, calmed yourself, dissipated your anger just a smidge, and then go on to rant. The only real reason I think people are upset with you is because of the way your presented yourself.

Can we please refrain from foul language as a way of attacking others please? I understand your anger, and you're completely entitled to your emotions, but take a moment to breathe.

Finally getting into the part of your punishment for freedom of speech. No, you should not be afraid to speak pubicly about your opinions. However, keep in mind that you may be the minority, which can make it feel like you're one against an army of people yelling in your ear. If this is the case and you really don't want to deal with it, then just get up and leave. Honestly, that's it. That's pretty mcuh all the advice I give you.

Going back to Meds. When he gets punished by you; a holder of insurmountable power on the wiki, and then brought back in by some other admin, then I can honestly say that's wrong, for the most part (still situational, no matter who). That is a childish thing to do. Just because you "like somebody" over the internet, it really shouldn't matter. If they're personally offending other  potential common-goers of the Wiki, then they should not be here (or on Skype, because all of you except for him are common here).

This also connotates to my last point of fixation. If someone is offended by what your saying who comes here commonly, then just leave. I don't mean permanently, but that maybe you should take a break, rethink what you said (not change your opinion), and rephrase yourself.

As a final note, I have to talk about how you said everyone seems to hate you here. I'm certainly not a huge fan or anything, but I don't despise you, not nearly. However, you and I both know for a fact that there are plenty that honestly don't like you. And before I go on, I just want to say that this last bit is not an insult in any way, shape, or form.

Maybe some people really don't like you for the fact that you don't present yourself in a manner found comfortable to be around in today's society. While I know it sucks to conform, I'm not asking you to change who you are, just maybe tweak the way you deal with situations like this in the future online.

Thank you. 